The Sacrament of Reconciliation, or Confession as it is
popularly known, is a Sacrament that we not only can, but
should receive often. During Ordinary Time our regular
Confession time is on Saturday from 3:30 to 4:30 in the
afternoon with just one priest. During the season of Lent
the starting time is 3:00 p.m., and there is at least one
additional priest hearing Confessions. When possible we
will have three priests hearing Confessions. It would be a
great thing if they were kept busy for the full hour and a
half.
Although Confession is a Sacrament that can be
frequently received, for many Catholics it is, unfortunately,
a rare occasion. The reasons (or excuses) for this run the
gamut from being "too busy" to "not having anything to
confess." Granted our Confessional hours are limited, but
one can always make an appointment for another time
during the week, and some people do. But if we find
ourselves "too busy" for Confession the bottom line is that
we are in fact too busy, period.
When one considers the enormity of the Sacrament, it is
truly in our own interest to make time for it. Some people
will reason that they have no mortal sins to confess. Yes,
venial sins can be forgiven outside of the Sacrament of
Reconciliation, but waiting until you have a mortal sin
before making use of the Sacrament is like waiting until you
need a root canal before going to the dentist. Regular
visits can prevent both from happening.
The more frequent our use of the Sacrament of
Confession, (even for venial sins) the more sensitive we
will grow to sin. The more sensitive we are to sin, the less
apt we are to sin and the more we grow in holiness.
My advice regarding the frequency of Confession is, "at
least once a month and immediately if you suspect a mortal
sin." And mortal sin can be as "small" as missing Sunday
Mass for no good reason. (Sports does not constitute a
good reason). The Sacrament of Reconciliation is a great
gift and a marvelous demonstration of God's Love for us.
During this Lenten season we should all make more regular
use of this Sacrament.